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[分享][转帖]翻身“农奴”得解放
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This is about the mothers and daughters-in-law relations card, will look at later to think also good, felt will be very similar with myself marital experience, therefore will transfer with everybody shares together.
The husband is I get together when the university knew, because the school is near, then let the youth which this slightly had the beauty deceive the heart of a young woman, knew how long didn';t have, this fellow then to graduate his second hometown Tianjin to go to work, keeps me to continue in the school to struggle.
From then on, we all are access the net telephone understood opposite party all situations, after a year I graduate keep Wuhan to work, I thought our life henceforth did not have to occur together, the slowly reduction with his relation, only was he has not interrupted for me E-mail, the holiday has sent the thing to me, at that time I extremely busy, just graduated warm-blooded by reason of with the impulse was useless, I had to study the thing too to be many, moreover then higher authority was has the work experience harsh woman.
A person one person alone in this city, sometimes also very much thinks him, hoped he can come to my side, but this paper, I do not dare to pierce. "Did not say that, did not say, a saying is wrong". When graduation, he said to me that, my parents already retired, still in all directions worked actually for me, I had to go back shoulder this family. First time listens to him to mention own family, first time looked his depressed appearance, first time facing his reluctantly face, I cannot find out needs to say any.
After the year, my work had the improvement, husband each week has written a letter to me, in August, Wuhan was precisely the steamer preheating time, the husband said, I had to go abroad for 3 months, wanted to go to have a look you. Then you come! Happiness all is same, respectively has each misfortune unfortunately. After we met have retrieved time the school joy, this has strengthened the husband trip of ideas, certainly had with me in the same place, thereupon pulled out group of old schoolmates to urge me, asked me to leave with him. When love suspends when has in front of the happy expectation girl to the future, I have compromised, not right? With human which likes daily in same place, is how happy!
After the Spring Festival, the husband comes on own initiative to my family, after my father and mother indicated the determination, sparkles in the tear light in my mother to carry off me, from this time on, started me "the girl raised from childhood to be wife of son of family" life
This has a half north blood relationship small child, is leading the south small girl, when steps the battle path, I ask him, your father and mother are sure to not to like me? Does he smile very much straightforwardly, how meets? ! They certainly are sure to like you! We are 2 children!
The husband and I am same, is the only son, the daddy he * treasure. GG is , PP is in the yurt headman, because releases, the city supports the countryside, to Hubei, had own family. Their generation of person is possibly most bitter, met in the factory the human to the middle age the reform, the husband once has raised with me, after his 12-3 year old, in the GG factory on has not paid out the wages, continuously all was is behind in payment the staff, thereupon in family';s all heavy burdens all on a PP individual body, think PP now saves, when the energy was poor in the family, the clever and dexterous woman thanks the bricks without straw.
GG in the unit is trade union president, in the final analysis, is does not have what real power the idle difference, but his manner solemn country leader is ordinary, often mentions the unit when somebody, "that has been I for many years the subordinate." I do not know somebody, when he speaks generally, I all do not make noise, only is one day, the husband thought aloud, the daddy enters my home since you, likes boasting extremely, my storm smiles makes noise.
Causes the full strength to me, "** (my name) fills a bowl with rice obviously the electric rice-cooker to me" in him on hand, moreover more is the human are many he more to have like this, the husband always said I am mindless, perhaps! Finally one day, I doubted me the question to suspend to the tabletop on, "the daddy, the electric rice-cooker in you on hand, you was abundant, or later will put the electric rice-cooker me, otherwise I also had to detour to you to fill a bowl with rice." In 2 years from now on, this happy assignment, will return to original state has given his wife, I could not serve the human. First time enters the old government, sees GP, my little darling shouted the sound "uncle the aunt is good!" Although in heart disturbed, but is as far as possible neither arrogant nor servile, later will be the whole family. Husband 2 suitcases which brings me admit oneself room, (note: Is meeting down a year half mile, my that box places there continuously, we do not have own closet, I like a traveller, all has the possibility to have as if as necessary to walk). The husband room is very small, puts a bed, only can be sideways leave. GP lives between the senior branch, because does not have the living room and the dining room, therefore their room gives dual attention to these functions, the room puts to draw back the skin the sofa, on several eats meal in the glass tea.
GP was called us to eat meal, the old busy with official business suspended the tableware, I stood in the husband side look at him, PP took a look at us secretly. When eats meal, PP shouts is letting me eat the shrimp: "This but Hubei no, is valuable!" I looked PP careless, wants to come to be supposed very good to be together, might afterwards these merits, thoroughly injure me.
I am the bumper year fourth day to his family, eighth day the husband must go to work, period PP always unceasing suggested me, "exited the extension to transfer, perhaps also could find the work!" I thought PP good s intention very much, if the husband exits to go to work, I also do not have the meaning in the home. Presently Wants to come, PP feared I dull at home increase husband';s burden, spends husband';s money.
Seventh day, I also really looked have been working, second days went to work, but the company did not have the staff dormitory. When comes out, mother exhorts me, own live, does not have the marriage, do not have to be occupied by in others family, I to the husband proposed wants to exit, the husband said now you are unfamiliar with the people and the place in here, is occupied by my family, I also good look after you.
Next day, I according to the place which the husband writes, sat the male steam to the company, the leader told me, the company engaged in the activity, on was dull one day in outside, I make the design, company old design who wanted the great winter outside, went to freeze, only then let the design which my this came newly. The north winter really is biting cold is cold! I am putting on the small cotton-wadded jacket which south buys, stayed one day in outside, the hands and feet has been icy cold!
Evening the husband meets me to get off work, loves dearly is hugging me, "the work, as for like this, does not receive the countenance which you sympathizes with." I did not appreciate kindness rendered let the husband smile. After goes home, I and PP picks the vegetable.
"How ** (does my name) today first day go to work?"
"Today one day all stays in outside, here winter may really be cold!"
"The labor takes bitterly a tired spot not to relate, always compared to dull at home strong, if because small is difficult does not do, that later will be able to make assorted "The mother, said any! ? "
I had not thought must be occupied by their family continuously, I am his son ask to come, thought they do not know, if knew also can the wife which asks the gate toward the extrapolation? ! Could not live the long time in any case, why with their petty bourgeois, I entered the room, from my suitcase, put out 1000, has given PP. What don';t I want to say, at that time if I raised the thing to leave, was as if oneself for oneself the humiliation, I could not let others despise oneself, like PP said, if because a small question did have, the life so to be how long, only? !
PP received the money, does not have the hypocrisy pushing and shoving, she is such directness.
"You are a sensible child, actually your aunt, does not have other meaning, even if has taken your money, when you need the money time, we are not all must give you." By now GG had opened the mouth, a face gets over an emotion appearance. Do I let them be such awkward? Wanted to come me also is the great person, let the whole family hold a meeting to worry, to think the countermeasure.
What the entire matter beginning to end, most embarrassed is most awkward is the husband, he wants to prevent to be possible he not to have the ability, he wants to argue may he not be able to find the reason which convinces, he only can endure.
After takes the money, GP starts in the kitchen busy dinner. But I as if just experienced an intense war, the whole body have been suddenly lax down, never has received shame me, spitefully was supporting own, turned around that moment in GP, collapsed completely, I entered husband';s room, he with came silently, then hugged me to cry, this was first.
The GP demonstration of authority, lets the husband think ashamed, had pledged protects me, happily lives for me, does not let the promise which I is wronged, in front of his parents, all appears such frailty. Can';t I how also imagine, his parents could give just enter his family';s I, thus and such and such attack! I remember he * worry suddenly, goes to his family like this easily, can let the human think you are a frivolous girl, they cannot treasure. I is turned one';s head which by love, where can consider that many.
After this matter occurs, I although the grievance, even more cautiously, hoped actually can find the house to carry out as soon as possible. But my this kind of manner, causes the husband actually which like the overhead drinks the stick, had found the sense of responsibility which a man should have, the picture prepares the cockerel as necessary which fights, protects me under his wing.
The blessing in disguise !
PP to the money hope, I understands her extremely, because GG wants to save face at all costs, loves leisure and hates work, in the family all expenses, son';s school expense all comes from her industrious both hands, PP studies for the husband has even swept the square, but the GG essential tobacco and liquor actually has not broken every day. GG all has to anybody one kind to come from the big city superiority feeling, own wife are not exceptional.
At that time because was the probation period, my wages was 1,500, gave the PP living expenses 1,000, the husband was 2,200, gave PP1500, turned over to the authorities already was not completely favors us. PP the speech which said to me is frequently: "** (myself) you must save the spot, later will spend money the day will be being also many, richly will save!" 500? Also must save? !I in Wuhan';s time, each month 2,000 all in every month light! She said she, I is listening, the left ear enters the right ear to leave. Because of mine this kind of disposition, lets her think I am a child, also does not have what opinion, if she no matter we, we does not eat the food.
Why does GP go to the trouble of travelling a long distance to move to Tianjin? Because of Brother PP parents sisters all in here. When at first they move in, lives in the PP elder sister family (oldest maternal aunt), latter and further because the evil root and the oldest maternal aunt family has a falling out, thereupon own purchase homes. Purchases homes when a cent money does not have on hand, the husband and GG borrows each relative, the period experiences suffering the supercilious look, experiences suffering ridicules, in husband';s memory, that is painful. Finally has bought present this 57 even second-hand houses, the family is extremely near to his grandmother.
The husband will graduate later to work for 2 years, the base qualification all also, but also had some savings, under this kind of premise, the husband only then persisted will let me come, after he will not want to graduate, I will be suffering hardships with him, before I did not understand, after will come to see to his family';s picture, I only then will know all.
PP also is not a human which a barbarian does not speak the truth, from does not have to nitpick sedulously I, even if because I love cleanly, takes a bath daily, every day washes clothes, she also only was makes a veiled attack said the sound: "This month of water fee resembled before many than!" Now wants to come this in hers dictionary, already was a speech which restrains extremely.
My GG in order to in all directions shows off own big guardian';s power and prestige but actually, so long as I rest in the home, gets me to serve food surely the market, he wants to use the practical action to prove to me that, If is not I does grocery shopping every day prepares food, you do not have eat. Has not gone before me, GG is in the family the only southerner, therefore the vegetable can complete, is in the family recognizes, after I go, is shows off wantonly. Before in view of the fact that politeness, I always said that, Before "mmm, you prepare food really are good" may the food be eat every day, eats all must sing the praises to him, satisfies his vanity. The time has been long, does not let me have one kind of illusion unavoidably, this is the holy communion, the heaven bestows for me. Thereupon finally has the day to bump into a hard to deal with customer, came back too to be tired does not want to speak, had forgotten the eulogy, the GG face elongated: "** (myself) I make the vegetable not to be delicious?"
I also immerse in the design proposal thought had not responded, nods: "Graciousness,, very is not delicious" hurries to shake the head. This act has offended the overlord, lays down the chopsticks slowly: "That tomorrow will start, you will prepare food." That is good, how long also couldn';t do in any case, I had the happy desire.
Second day I hurriedly catch up with toward the family, GP gets off work early, every day own 7 starts to prepare food does not have the question, but if is I prepares food, hoped can earlier have the food, great winter 5 and half o';clock get off work, the day already was black. In the market entrance saw in cold wind the husband, my heart all warms, now still remembered. GG which the vegetable to go home facing is burning with anger, pays no attention to him, hurries to prepare food. The result I attain greatly successfully, the strength proves me not only to be able husband';s heart strong unity, has bought his stomach. Each vegetable sees the bottom, the husband really gives me the face, then GG justed like a serious illness patient to press firmly between the fingers by others has hurt the foot, became angry out of shame he, the reorganization food looked all did not look my, in 3 days which met down, when my hiding person, GG was this, if were a frank person, certainly could fly into a rage to me, moreover I also hoped he had the speech then to say, but he was not, had the speech he to say not directly, but was cursing at people which beat around the bush, was same like the woman, indirect insult.
Fourth days, have issued the order: "** (myself) you come back to prepare food every day too late, if has the possibility to come back as soon as possible, do not have to rub gently in the unit, if cannot, you be possible to request my help." You are not only prepare food I to eat, why do I request you!
"You if come back early, you do." I have not looked at him, then reorganizes the room, I feared looked he pulls the long face the appearance.
This matter from now on, he again will not be able to give up the authority which he will prepare food, this will be he at home only supreme authority. His unusual dependence son, he does not want to push the son far!
Before I have not come, the husband has lived the more than half a year in the company dormitory, one is because goes to work far; Two is PP is approximate in parsimonious economy, lets the husband worriedly be unable to withstand, each month pays PP the money many, but eats, imitates in the Buddhist which uses is a junkman, as necessary readiness condition; Three is since has given the PP money, is left over the money might own buy clothes and movie DVD, but PP these all had to manage, did not let the free control, thereupon the husband moved to the dormitory, only then the weekend went back. After I go, again in family.
Third month, the husband had found the appropriate house, already reached an agreement with the landlord the price. In the husband hand is a minute does not have, I go to work for 2 years, in the hand how many some savings. I take out the money place in my suitcase, the approximately good landlord 3rd days makes a payment. The second day evening, I and the husband will exit the matter and GP which will rent a room discussed. I have bought a coat specially to PP, pair of leather shoes, have bought 2 smoke to GG. Although these 3 months which lives in the home, has some not to be happy, but thanks them stemming from politeness to look after me (I not to be able to think their how good intentions do look after me).
Evening the husband meets me to get off work, both of us cannot say the joy, we had immediately belong to own little family.
When eats meal, the husband praises GG the meal really is specially fragrant! Starts to change over to the subject: "We have looked for a one room hall house, is not very expensive, each month 1,200, mainly is the place near-point which goes to work to me, will make a payment tomorrow, weekend planned moved"
The GG unusual tranquility, PP jumps: "Is ** (myself) in box that several thousand dollars? I added, puts such many money on the home, you also really are brave!" Then abandons a heavy case bomb: "I saved to you!"
I am startled cannot say the speech to come, because my this is I has not thought completely. The husband listened also to jump: "The mother, how can you casually turn her box, you... ... " An illness brought on by the obstruction of flow of vital energy, cannot find out the speech.
"I tidy up the thing to you, how? ! " Scholar runs into the soldier.
I come the time although is not long, regarding said comes out PP, with makes GG which comes out, has some understandings, moreover all is they quite gloomy one side, one side this, some is the husband forever also does not have the opportunity to see to,Square meter. The husband goes home on the dining table is very excited tells us this news.
PP is first cannot hold in, did not know why first is taken to the threshing ground each time all is she? Possible she to confess is in the room outside a room skilled person.
" urchases homes? Have you discussed with who? You have (meaning which how much money lets you make tosses about north, initially comes not to know is any meaning), first tells you, us is a minute does not have, you must purchase homes you to buy." A speech has died of suffocation husband';s all anticipations, he thought each month of PP the money which saves to him is a money which purchases homes to him, but the reality tells him, the money only then in oneself hand is most materially beneficial, ha-ha... ... Also lets my weak husband be sober.
"My each month wages not all handed over you, you said saved to me? That is I prepares to purchase homes!" The husband a little spoke incoherently.
Originally you keep thinking about this money! The galley proof, I tell you, that money affirmation is cannot move, in the family 11,000 any matters, that is the emergency money." Then is pointing at me: "You also very have the idea, I tell you, this family has me in one day, you do not want to show off ability."
The by heaven and earth and my conscience, this my idea, the husband should want certainly to be sure to study is undertaking. I set out, plays plays.
"You do not pull toward her body on, is I wants to purchase homes, which doesn';t purchase homes we to marry the room? I must (myself) marry as soon as possible with 。 I am a man, I want to have to belong to us the family."
"Your family? Takes my money to buy you the family? Do you die! I eat without paying to you live in vain, let you study in vain." PP also , for that money, lets the son die.
By now GG has opened the mouth: "You with your mother horizontal, she is not easy for this family, initially in order to you went to school, she was anxious all night cannot sleep all night. Such speaks for the bystander with your mother." GG said I am a bystander, that is good, truly, I do not have the marriage certificate with the husband, I cannot calculate him in person.
Might write about here me to be unable to restrain to have to expose my GG, when the husband studied, he did not have the work in the home, he "is being not also raised" by the wife? Doesn';t a man, why stand supports a family? Because he is lazy, loves leisure and hates work, has grand plans but little skill. He always said my PP cannot sleep all night, may we 7 finish eating every day the food, PP on lies down toward the bed on, 10 minutes shouted, this was a husband once when the joke has said to me. PP body always very good, GG really cannot find any indisposition, then hypothesized comes out, but these all are everybody is obvious to all, is really laughable.
If PP is unruly sways back and forth lets the human 难以忍受, then on the GG coy affection and the fire the top up lets me loathe, he cannot to PP such clear saying: "I am want to ask for money", but is makes an affectation of is similar any matter all is good for us.
The husband in aed towering rage at that time, others have robbed in as if his heart the glorious future, its smashing devastating. "The line, I try to find solution, does not use '; your '; money." After the husband comes, I have not held true he, lets him think well, said uselessly, later did not must have any reason to pull to my body comes up, I will not draw fire to oneself.
The husband will want to purchase homes nothing but is for ours future, since will be own future, then we will plan complete. I and the husband discussed that, the house certainly must buy, I do not want dull to get down in your family, one day not! The husband to I apologize, for oneself parents'; words and deeds, I shakes the head: "Does not use, the adult wants to be responsible for own words and deeds, you do not have extremely." This also is I and he is together the road, I have not insulted his parents, always to the present all is. I must tell him, each people all have the self-respect, they more are injure me, I jump over them resist the great distance, this fissure does not have the means repair, later also please he will not want to make useless winning over. I am do not have the escape route!
Telephones for oneself the parents, mother understood our situation, for my 50,000 Yuan, and 10,071 and collected me, the husband has borrowed 20000 to the friend schoolmate, has paid in advance 10000 to the company, fragmentarily has collected 100000, handed over to pay, because was the time room, second year in May handed over the room, we could not but live together temporarily with GP eaves.
Busily ated work for half month, the husband merit has been biggest, he pledged put to the motion. Knew we are on good terms the money, each item of contract procedure all manages neat after, GG exchanges another countenance immediately, he wants to make a breach from son that. In front of me had said, GG relies on the husband very much, hoped the son can care for the aged can serve.
(To be continued)
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