To My Friends

暗香疏影

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
给我的单身朋友们
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the
more it eludes you.  
爱就象一只蝴蝶，越要追它，却越要逃避。
But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when
you least expect it.
如果就随它自由的飞，它会在你最不注意时飞向你。
Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's
only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
爱使人快乐，却常伤害人。但只有在你把爱给了一个真正值得付出的人时，是最珍貴的。
So take your time and choose the best.
所以，花点时间去选择最好的他/她吧。

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To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
给我那不是单身的朋友们
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.'
爱不能使他/她成为一个完美的人'
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
它却可以使你找到一个帮你成长的他/她

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To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
给我玩世不恭的朋友们
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk
about feelings if they aren't there.
如果你不在乎，不要说“我爱你”。如果他们不在时，不要讨论自已的感受
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
不要涉足会使他人心碎的生活。
Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.
说谎时，不要看着眼睛。
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let
her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works
最残忍的事莫过于男人让女人爱他，却是逢场作戏。反之亦然…
both ways...

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To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
给我已婚的朋友们
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.'
不要老是說'这是你的错'，何不说说'对不起'。
Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here.'
不要老是问'你去哪里了'，何不说说'我就在这儿等着你'。
Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.'
不要老是问'你怎么会这么做？'，何不说说'我了解你'。
Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
不要老是说'我希望你这么做'，何不说说'我感谢你的一切'。

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[这个贴子最后由暗香疏影在 2003/07/21 09:43pm 第 1 次编辑]

To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
给我那已订婚的朋友们
The true measure of compatibility is not the years
spent together
要真正衡量包容心，不是看在一起几年了，而是要看彼此的敬爱
but how good you are for each other.
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To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
给我心碎的朋友们
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as
you allow them to go.
心碎的时间和伤害的深度，完全取决于你自已。
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks
but to learn from them.
难的是，如何从中学习，而不是从伤痛中爬起。

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To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
给我所有天真的朋友们
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent
but not too persistent,
要如何恋爱？--就爱吧。不要欲言又止；要互相协调，不要太固执；
share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
要分享，且千万不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受伤后不要再记恨。

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To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
给我积极的朋友们
It breaks your heart to see the one you love
happy with someone else
看到你所爱的他/她和其他人很快乐使你心碎
but it's more painful to know that the one you love
is unhappy with you.
但知道你所爱的他/她是和你在一起不快乐，令人更加的伤心。

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To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
给我害怕去承认的朋友们
Love hurts when you break up with someone.
当你和他/她分手时，爱受到伤害
It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
当他/她和你分手时，更是伤痛
But love hurts the most when the person you love
has no idea how you feel.
但伤害最深的是你所爱的他/她完全无法了解你的感受

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To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
给我那还在等待的朋友们
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love,
人生最伤心的事，是你和他/她爱情长跑了多年，最后的结局却不如所望。
only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and
that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.
'如果他/她现在让你觉得不值的付出，那么一年，甚至十年后，都不会值的付出的。
If he isn't worth it now he's notgoing to be worth it a year
or 10 years from now. Let go.....
让他/她走吧

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TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
给我所有的朋友们
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,
我竭诚祝福你们爱着一个诚实、强壮、成熟、衷心、有冲劲、保护你、积极、
值得付出和无私的他/她。
never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding
and unselfish.

笑文人

一组很好的爱情启示录,让人深思,品味,理解,来达到一种更高层次的升华.
另说明:孟兮你的回复早点夹在中间影响整体流畅的观感,我已经删了,请你理解,有进此贴在重新回复一下.

醉生梦死

第五帖和第十帖的英文字我看不清~~~~~`

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To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
给我所有天真的朋友们
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent
but not too persistent,
要如何恋爱？--就爱吧。不要欲言又止；要互相协调，不要太固执；
share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
要分享，且千万不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受伤后不要再记恨。

很好的启示